What Do You Want?
By DatingSOS Editor • Mar 6th, 2008 • Category: Articles, Relationship ProblemsA question not often uttered, at least not in my experience, is “what do you want?” Perhaps more nicely put: what do you expect from me?
If you’ve been off the market for a while, either because you were dating someone for a long time or just not dating anyone at all, and then find yourself “seeing someone”… this is a question that may suddenly pop up. However, that doesn’t mean it gets verbalized until it is too late.
What someone wants can be as mysterious as the sphinx, but somehow each person is supposed to be able to know instinctively. Or be capable of reading minds.
So when to ask, or decide to keep guessing? Who the hell knows. Just make sure not to ask when it is too late, or you might be missing out. What you are missing out on may not be entirely clear either though, after all: you’re dating the sphinx.
Sooner rather than later would be a good answer to the “when” part of the question. But it depends on how mysterious the lucky girl is, and how badly you want to know the potentially ugly truth of her expectations.
DatingSOS Editor has been a freelance writer for over five years, and published more than 100 articles in a variety of publications. She is always on the look-out for new ways of keeping a date busy and enjoys her hectic love-and-work schedule
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