Today I read an interesting article titles “Marriage and Money: Can Love Overcome Financial Incompatibility?” and I can’t help but link to it and wonder: how much financial incompatibility can someone live with? The situation described in the article sounds like a clear case of financial delusion and a sure trip into debt, bankruptcy and possible divorce… I hate to blame the girl, but from what I read it sounds like it is the woman who does not have a grip on reality, and is living in a dream.

Is it really her fault though, or did her life style given to her by her parents rob her from a sense of reality? After all, she doesn’t need to make ends meet with her own pay cheque.

Perhaps it is easier to be financially compatible once you can be financially realistic. Nothing gives you a better sense of reality than living on your own, without financial help from mom and pop.

This is without a doubt an interesting topic that can be explored endlessly!

After reading this article, and hearing many other similar stories, I’m starting to think financial incompatibility is almost as detrimental to a relationship as sexual incompatibility. At least in finances you can learn to moderate your spending, without feeling a pinch. However, with sex there really is little you can do to change your tastes. Having said that though, money habits can be as hard to break as a ‘undesirable’ mating ritual…

As a couple searching for romantic travel destinations, it can be hard to agree on something you both will enjoy. You can narrow down your list by finding out what each of you enjoys the most, then putting your lists together to agree upon a final destination you both love. After trying these simple steps, you should find the planning to go a lot smoother.

Here are some simple questions you can ask yourselves to narrow down your list..

* Are you interested in travelling to famous landmarks? There are some amazing historic monuments and museums that some couples find very romantic.

* Are you looking to relax in a tropical setting? Some popular destinations are Mexico and the Caribbean. (For a complete list, check out the website below).

* Do you want to do any extreme sports while your there? Skydiving, snowboarding, para-sailing…there are tons of them you may want to look in to.

* Are you looking to go somewhere that has a lot of fun activities to keep you busy? Some examples are scuba diving, going to concerts or taking day trips.

* Are you looking for a trip that is all inclusive? There are many websites that can offer you great deals if you book a package deal. These are usually flight + hotel + meals. Some also may include transportation or activities. (If you book your trip during a low season, or book a last minute deal, you can save huge amounts of money)

* Would you prefer joining tour groups, or doing things on your own? Many European trip companies offer tour groups. Many people enjoy these because it gives them an opportunity to meet different people and they may feel more safety as a group.

* Do you enjoy nature? Would you like to go somewhere that you can ‘take it all in’? There are so many beautiful countries filled with waterfalls, mountains, rivers and majestic scenery. Do some research to find the perfect on for you and your partner.

*Are you looking to stay in one place or would you enjoy a cruise to several different locations? Cruise bring more variety which many people like. However, you must adhere to the cruise’s time schedule.

Try going over these questions with your partner to narrow down you list. Answering them will hopefully help you identify a romantic adult getaway you both will enjoy.

Good Luck!